The reason racism is discrimination is because of white domination and colonialism. Sexism is discrimination because of male domination and patriarchy. Transgender people are discriminated against when they face exclusion and violence based on their being transgender or gender nonconforming.
But transgender discrimination, or transphobia, doesn’t have the same structural relationship to sexism that it does to racism, when we apply the principle of intersectionality. Transgender status defines a relationship between a person’s natal biological sex and their current identification or self-presentation to the world. There is a political disagreement between the position that transgender status changes a person’s sex-classification (or stated another way, that sex classification for legal and social purposes is a matter of arbitrarily assigned gender and has no inherent implications that concern human rights), and the position that sex-classification is a necessary legal and social underpinning for women as the female sex, or those born female, to claim the space and the authority to define ourselves and intervene in the world around us on an equal basis with the male sex which has collectively both defined itself as primary and suppressed and exploited us, our labor and our physical bodies, with the result of denying us even the space of our own selves. Sex classification under this position, which I endorse, is the political underpinning for women’s liberation movements and feminism.
If you believe that transgender status changes sex-classification, that what we are really classifying is gender, which can be changed by a person’s self-identification or outward presentation, then denying male transgender persons (who identify as women) access to lesbian space and identity, to female-only sports teams and locker rooms and prisons, to female-only events and support groups, to female-only domestic violence shelters, to female-only consciousness-raising and social spaces, to complete affirmation of their male-born realities as part of women’s human rights and feminism, is a no-brainer. Of course they have a right to such access and those women who seek to deny them are mere bigots, like racists. Intersectionality is collapsed because women as the collective noun for persons of the female sex, have been made politically invisible, have been politically disappeared and suppressed.
If on the other hand, like me, you are female, lesbian, and deeply value the different intimacy you experience with other lesbians, other women, that is disrupted when a male person insists on his presence among us, welcome to a new reality of having no recourse and no political allies that can be trusted except for ourselves. Going to progressive events, demonstrations against war (such as Israeli genocide of Gaza), going to support groups, hell, all the other things that don’t affect me personally but that can affect any of us like going to prison or needing a domestic violence shelter (or hospital bed) – single lesbians, especially young ones newly coming out and seeking to date and find others like ourselves – all of this becomes a minefield. Do I hide what I feel and believe? Do I say it openly and wait to be thrown out? Do I walk on the margins? Do I quietly leave when it becomes clear that other women welcome a man as one of us?
Many lesbians, like me, are also marginalized for other reasons and get used to being marginalized. Personally I seem to seek out places where I don’t expect people to be like me. It was an anomaly that I went to law school at CUNY which has the motto ‘Law in the service of human needs’ and I found others who cared passionately about human rights and also most of whom were working class. But the exclusion comes into every facet of life. It has affected my relationships in the human rights and disability/anti-psychiatric oppression work, not only on a personal level but certain people’s willingness to work with me or promote my work at all. (That seems to shift and change over time; I am never left entirely without space to work in, and this is also because my networks and scope of action is bigger than what the anti’s can do to me, at least for now. I don’t think they can erase me entirely even if they could manage to convince the whole community to go against me, because what I’ve done is integral to their own work. It matters less whether my name gets attached, though I will keep working as long as I can.)
So I’m here making a political and personal argument. 1) There is no good reason to elevate the transgender activist (or trans/queer, or trans feminism) position over the women’s liberationist one. They are arguments about how to approach the same reality.
2) The suppression of our ability to talk about this argues in favor of the feminist position. If women had no political claim to being an oppressed sex class, surely we would be controlling media, universities, governments, and surely we would be able to defend ourselves against the violence that trans activists inflict on us when we do exercise our right to speak. Violence that becomes increasingly escalated.
3) Does no one care about women’s pain? Women’s hurt feelings? The micro- and macro-aggressions against us? Are lesbians supposed to go back to being closeted, accepting whatever we can get on the margins, while male pornographers abuse our image and the rest of society gets off on it?
I think I know the answer to that last question.